Being fragile doesn’t make you weak

remaining delicate
doesn't make you weak

it makes you willing to get
shattered every now and then

in order for you to transform
into whatever
you need to become next

some of God's best
artwork

are things that were
once broken

that became a new creation

if someday you
have to become
completely undone

~ don't fight it

because that is just a sign
that the divine isn't done
working on you yet

if someday the forest
of your life has to
be burned to the ground

~ don't cling to the ashes of what once was

just stand still and wait
patiently for the
saplings of what comes
next for you

~ emerge emerge emerge

being willing to
start over
again and again
is the opposite
of weakness

it's the toughest
thing I can think of

resurrection is only
for the strong

and you my love,

you are the strongest
   person I have
      ever met
                        ~ john roedel

Lately, I've been reminded of the incredible power that lies in our fragility - it doesn't make us weak, it makes us human. In fact, it takes immense strength to be willing to start over again and again, to rise from the ashes and embrace life with renewed vitality. Resurrection is a journey for the strong.

In the last 5 days I've witnessed miracles that have left me in awe. I've seen the fragility and strength of a precious newborn fighting for life and emerging victorious.

I've seen my own son's resurrection as he bravely navigates through the challenges and losses of the past three years, building a new life with courage and determination. His words about the last few years, "It felt like a long fever dream, Mom!" speak volumes about the resilience of the human spirit.

I've also witnessed the extraordinary bravery of a widowed friend as she dares to love and be loved again. It takes immense courage to open one's heart after loss and embrace the possibility of new beginnings. Her strength and vulnerability are truly inspiring.

As for me, I'm embarking on a new chapter of my life as I venture to Mexico. This is a journey that fills me with both excitement and trepidation. It's a leap of faith and a step into the unknown. So, I’m leaning into my courage to embrace the fragility of this new adventure.

Wherever you are in your own journey, whatever challenges or changes you may be facing, I hope these words offer you courage and strength. May they inspire you to release the ashes of what once was and emerge with renewed vitality, ready to embrace life with an open heart and a resilient spirit.

With fragile courage,
Deb